How to Prepare for Your Wedding Consultation

A Mr. Derk wedding party in black suits, fitted and coordinated in our Edmonton shop

The first wedding appointment is the one that does the most work. Walk in with a date, a palette and a list of names, and half an hour settles the groom, the groomsmen and the fathers. Here is what to bring, who to bring, and when to book so nothing is rushed.

First, the date

Everything else follows from how far out you are. We have not rented suits for years; every wedding we dress is bought and tailored in-house, which means the clock runs on the suit, not on a warehouse. As a rule, come in two to three months before the wedding and nothing is tight.

If the look is a suit from our rack, tailored to each man, two months is comfortable. If the groom wants a made-to-measure suit, plan on three months: about five weeks to make it, then a fitting and any finishing. A suit made to order by the maker, cut from their cloth in their workroom, is a three to five month clock, so book five months out. Mills and workrooms close over the summer and again at Christmas, so a date just after either one wants an earlier start.

Under four weeks is not a no. Call us at 780-431-4293 or chat with our team before you book and we will tell you what can be done in the time; anything that has to be made in a hurry carries a rush fee.

Who to bring

Keep the first appointment small. The two of you, or the groom and the one person whose opinion decides things, is the right room. We ask a lot of questions in that half hour, about the venue, the time of day, the dress code, the colours on the other side of the aisle, and a crowd of groomsmen turns a conversation into a committee. The decisions get made faster with fewer people, and nothing gets missed.

The rest of the party comes in afterward, each on his own fitting, once the look is settled. We schedule those with them directly so you are not herding anyone. If a groomsman lives out of town, we send him our measurement form, coordinate the measuring from here, and have his suit fitted and ready when he lands.

What to bring

  • The date and the venue. A July lakeside ceremony and a December ballroom are different cloths, different weights and different colours. Indoors or out, afternoon or evening, and the dress code if there is one.
  • The palette. Photos of the dresses, the flowers, the invitations, anything that carries the colours of the day. We build the groom and the party to sit inside that palette rather than fight it.
  • A swatch, if you can get one. Most dress designers include a fabric swatch, and an alterations cut-off works just as well. A swatch lets us match a tie, a pocket square or a waistcoat to the real colour without the groom seeing the dress, so the first look stays a first look.
  • Inspiration. Screenshots from Instagram and Pinterest, a photo from a friend's wedding, a film still. We do not need it to be perfect; we need to see what you are drawn to, so we can show you the versions of it we can actually put on you.
  • The party list. Names, roles and where each man lives. Fathers and ring bearers too, if they are being dressed. This is what we build the fittings schedule from.
  • A budget range. We dress wedding parties at five price levels, from a tailored rack suit at $299 to full custom from $999, and the groom does not have to be on the same tier as his groomsmen. Knowing the range before we start saves everyone trying on things that were never in play.
  • The shoes you plan to wear, or an open mind about new ones. Trouser hems are set to the shoe, so the right pair at the fitting means the right break on the day.

A brown wool suit with a grey tie and a rust pocket square, tailored at Mr. Derk

A brown suit, a grey tie and a rust square. The palette does the work when the fit is right.

What happens in the room

We start with the questions, then we pull. You will try on a few cuts so we can see how your shoulders and your seat sit in each, and we take measurements while you are in them. From there we propose the look: the groom's suit or dinner jacket, what the groomsmen wear beside him, how the fathers fit in, and the shirts, ties, squares and shoes that finish it. Before you leave you will know the tier for each man, the price, and the date everything will be ready.

Orders are confirmed with full payment, no deposits or split billing, because the suit goes into production the day it is paid for and that is what locks your timeline. If you would rather sleep on it, that is fine too; the appointment costs nothing and the plan keeps.

After the appointment

Once the party is confirmed we open a profile for each member, with his measurements, his sizes and what he is wearing, and we track every order against the date. We book the fittings, follow up with the men who have not come in, and chase anything that is late so you do not have to. When the suits arrive they are tailored by our own tailors on the premises, then pressed and held for a final try-on a comfortable distance from the wedding. Free tailoring comes with every suit at $899 and up; below that, most alterations run $75 to $125 and a simple hem starts at $15. Nothing leaves the building unfinished.

Questions we get asked

Do you still rent suits or tuxedos?

No. We stepped away from rentals because we could not control the fit or the timeline, and a wedding is the wrong day to find that out. Everything we dress is bought, tailored to the man wearing it, and his to keep. The full reasoning, with prices side by side, is in Rent vs. Buy.

My groomsmen are all different shapes. Can they still match?

Yes, and this is the strongest reason to buy rather than rent. Each suit is tailored to its man in-house, so the tall one, the one who lifts and the one who does not can wear the same cloth and all look like it was made for them. Matching comes from the cloth and the colour; fit comes from our tailors.

Half the party lives in another city. How does that work?

We send each out-of-town member our measurement form and coordinate the measuring from Edmonton. Their suits are ordered with the rest, tailored here to the measurements, and ready for a final check when they arrive for the wedding. Tell us where everyone lives at the first appointment and we build it into the schedule.

Does the groom have to wear the same thing as the groomsmen?

No. Most grooms want to stand apart a little, and there are a dozen ways to do it: a dinner jacket against the party's suits, a different cloth in the same colour, a waistcoat the others skip, or simply a made-to-measure suit beside tailored rack suits. We will show you the options against your palette and you pick how far apart you want to sit.

I do not know a shawl lapel from a notch. Does that matter?

Not at all; that is what the appointment is for. If you would like the vocabulary before you come in, our tuxedo and suit glossary covers lapels, vents, collars and the rest in plain language.

I am a guest, not the groom. Is this appointment for me?

Book the one-on-one instead and tell us the wedding date and dress code. We will have a few suits pulled in your size when you arrive. The suit collection is the live list if you want to look first.

Book the first appointment

Book a wedding consultation at the shop just off Whyte Avenue, call 780-431-4293, or chat with our team and we will find a time that works for both of you. Walk-ins are welcome, but the booked half hour is yours alone, and for a wedding that is worth having. In the meantime, the wedding collection is a good place to start gathering ideas.

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